If you get a chance take it, if it changes your life let it...

What is it that stops us from being who we are? The very person that someone out there is looking for, and that we can love ourselves. This is a question have asked myself repeatedly over the past 2 years as I float in and out of being who I really am. The single greatest influencer discovered has been FEAR.

I have spent a great deal of time recently exploring what that is, what that means and trying to understand why we some of us give it such importance in life.  Ultimately, I believe fear to be a created emotion to protect myself against disappointment.  Realistically, there isn't much in life we are dealt that we are not capable of handling... so why from time to time do we let fear criple us in vulnerable situations? It is by far the greatest derailer.

Coincidence on the other hand, may be the key to overcoming this fear. A guide to the faith that things happen for a reason. The chance to explore the timing of life and how very much things line themselves up with little of our own input.

This brings me back to faith, and my all time favourite quote

 "Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget the ones who don't. And believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said it would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it."