Do I know what I want? Or am I simply more confused?

After a couple of “interesting dates” and lots of time with great friends, I was starting to wonder why I have been so uninterested in dating in recent months. Apart from having a very full and very blessed life. I have arrived at a few possibilities. Either I am just completely satisfied with where I am in life at the moment OR, perhaps I don’t know what I’m looking for anymore OR, I am so certain of exactly what I want that I am uninterested in wasting my time on anything else.

On the way home from an event tonight, some girlfriends and I couldn't help but dish about our thoughts. One friend hadn't met anyone who interested her and spent 4 years single before recently getting involved with someone she knew, with whom it's been a great and natural fit. The other friend and I both noted how only 1 or 2 ever come along that even interest us...I think I miss having a crush?!

It seems there are people of every type of dating nature. Those who fall hard for everyone. Those who think everyone falls hard for them. Those who just need to be with someone, anyone. Those who don’t really need anyone. I think I could go on… So I am left to wonder where do I fit?

I want a relationship, but absolutely adore every single privilege and pleasure that has come to me in my single life, so much so, that I’d rather be single, unless he’s the one.

I’d love to hear your thoughts. Please shoot me an email. 

Where do you stand on dating? 
What are you looking for?
What does settling look like for you?
What do you love or hate about dating?

I know you have thoughts on this… don’t leave me hanging, I want to hear from you!!!

jax@jaxmattioli.com