Blue suit, brown shoes...got my eye...

I've always found a man wearing a navy suit with crisp white and blue striped shirt and classic brown shoes very attractive...until I moved into the city.  I noticed in the past few weeks it seems every many between 25-45 is wearing just that.  I giggled out loud when I passed 3 men walking together wearing almost the exact same thing... It occurred to me that at least it made it easier.  I no longer have to do the once over, the only difference at a glance was height, size and face.  I caught myself daydreaming at lunch when I went to pick up a salad.  The man in front of me was wearing the "financial district uniform" of blue with brown shoes.  But even before he turned around, something about the way the jacket fit his broad shoulders kinda had me smouldering already.

I still get a kick every time a friend points out a man and says "omg, he's so your type". It's impossible not to get a silent thrill when I think to myself, nah, not really.  How is it that something that should in theory be s easy is so complicated?  There are thousands of great looking men in this city, yet only a very small handful that grab me by that special little place that lights me up from inside...  

In the meantime, I am amused by observing the world around me. Sitting at dinner at a usual or spot the other night, our table made guesses about the couple beside us...how many dates they'd likely been on together.  Human behaviour is fascinating, sometimes it is just so natural and sometimes it isn't.  Perhaps that makes it even more challenging for singles...the more experiences you have the more analytical you are about each experience moving forward.  Ugh...an exhausting thought.  In the meantime, the smile project is spreading among friends, and what can I say... That little curve on someone's face just might be the most powerful piece of human connection. Even a complete stranger can fill me up with warmth from the inside out :). 

King West was alive with vibes the other night...all smiles :)